"The Cynical Tongue"
~ by Pastor Karen Schatzline ~

Psalms 1:1 - "Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful."

Eliab, David's oldest brother, was a true cynic. When David went down to the scene of the battle and saw Goliath, the Philistine giant who was intimidating the Israelites, he became indignant. He stepped up and confidently stated that he would personally take care of this "uncircumcised Philistine" (1 Samuel 17:36). Circumcision was a sign of God's covenant of protection and provision for the Israelites. David knew that this bully had no such covenant with God; only the Israelites could claim such a benefit. David was very secure in the covenant and totally embraces God's promise. Obviously, this was not so for Eliab.

"Now Eliab his oldest brother heard when he spoke to the men; and Eliab's anger burned against David and he said, "Why have you come down? And with whom have you left those few sheep in the wilderness? I know your insolence and the wickedness of your heart; for you have come down in order to see the battle." But David said, "What have I done now?" (1 Samuel 17:28-29 ).

A person who is cynical scorns the motives of others. Cynicism is like venom; it poisons the atmosphere wherever it is present. Resorting to it will also poison your spirit and that of others. Find one cynical employee, student, or family member and pretty soon those with weaker minds are chiming in and joining in on the negative conversation. It can wreak havoc on any relationship and in any environment. I have found that distancing myself from a cynic is usually my best coping strategy.

As you proceed on your tongue fast, really begin to observe your comments in various settings and determine if you are being cynical or scornful. Retire from cynicism today and see how much happier you will be.

Prayer: Father, help me to guard my tongue this week and give me opportunities to encourage those I come in contact with.  Help me be a voice of encouragement to my family at all times. Amen.